For the past three years, I’ve had the joy of connecting with students from my alma mater, Le Moyne College, during their Manresa on the Road trip to Boston. And for the last two years, I’ve had the added pleasure of hosting them at my office at MIT. I look forward to this visit each spring as it is a time to pause, reflect, and be reminded of the kind of community that forms when curiosity and kindness come together.
This year, as the visit approached, I found myself feeling unusually tired. I had 2 cups of coffee today (if you really know me, you'll know this is a rarity). As I walked into the conference room with my friend Jonathan (class of 2011) and settled into the usual routine of introductions and questions, I wondered if I’d have the energy to be fully present. Within moments, I was reminded of the deep joy these conversations bring. I reconnected with dear friends--RJ Rapoza, TJ Davis, and Katie Pershall —who greeted me with warm hugs and familiar laughter. The students, who varied in year, program, hometown, and interests, asked very thoughtful questions. They asked about the PhD journey, about how I found my way into educational research, and one question that especially stuck with me: What are the biggest mistakes you've made? WOOOOFF!!! I am glad they asked. Here’s what I shared:
When they asked me what the most fulfilling part of my job is, I mentioned the travel and the cool projects, but I also mentioned the people. I’ve been fortunate to work with colleagues who have become dear friends. People who challenge me, make me laugh—those deep, belly laughs—and expand the way I see the world. I cherish those relationships and always will, even after our work together ends. Needless to say, the conversation was rich, restorative, and full of hope. If you happen to come across a Le Moyne Dolphin out in the world—maybe they’re job searching, maybe they’re just curious about your story—PLEASE give them a few minutes of your time. I promise you, you’ll walk away with more than you could have ever imagined.
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